Taron hira da Gwyneth Paltrow na Sophia Amoruzo da kuma Girlboss podcast ya haifar da matsalolin rikice-rikice, daga kishi ga tausayi! Ba abin asiri cewa murmushi mai ban dariya na 'yar wasan kwaikwayo ta sami nasara ga mutane da dama, amma ba ta hanzarta yin hulɗa da ita ba tare da dangantaka da juna, ta zabi mafi kyau kuma mafi mahimmanci! Ga manema labaru, Gwyneth ya gaya wa mafi yawan abin tunawa, ya sa sunayen sunayen Ben Affleck, Joseph Fiennes, Brad Pitt da Chris Martin, kuma sun amsa cewa gaskiya ta tabbata ne saboda laifin da ya yi da kuma kisa ga kansa!
Brad Pitt
Bangaren da Pitt ya fara a shekarar 1995 lokacin da harbi "Bakwai", a cikin shekara guda dangantaka ta ci gaba har zuwa iyaka kuma sun sanar da wani alkawari. Shirye-shirye na bikin aure, da'awar juna, aiki, rashin kuskure a gina dangantaka mai tsanani, ya haifar da hutu a watanni shida.
Bisa ga abubuwan tunawa da abokai, musamman masanin actor Morgan Freeman, lokacin da wannan biyu yake kusa da juna, iska ta kasance mai tsanani ga iyakarta, kowa yana jin fitowar wutar lantarki.
Paltrow ya furta:
Ban taba ɓoye cewa ba a hana mini hankalin mutane ba, amma abu ɗaya ne da zan sadu, wani abu ne na gina dangantaka mai tsanani! Shin ina sha'awar Brad, ba shakka! Ya kasance mai kyau! Yi hakuri cewa ba muyi aiki ba kuma ni kaina na lalata tunaninmu. Zan iya kasancewa aboki mai auna, ɗalibai mai kulawa da ƙauna, mahaifiyata, 'yar'uwa, amma rashin lafiyar kaina na iya lalatar da wani dangantaka.
Ben Affleck da Joseph Fiennes
Bayan ya rabu da Brad Pitt, a shekarar 1998, actress ya wallafa littafin tare da abokan aiki biyu, tare da Ben Affleck da kuma abokin tarayya a fim Joseph Fiennes a kan fim din "Shakespeare in Love". Da safe, ya gudu zuwa Ben, kuma da yamma ya yi wasa da "ƙauna" tare da Yusufu, ta yi wasa tare da jin dadin maza biyu, kuma rashin kasancewa biyu a cikin wuraren ba da launi ba kawai ya ji dadi. Bayan ɗan lokaci, Ben ya gano labarin Gwyneth a gefe, ya nuna kirki a hoto na ma'aurata da sumba a waje da saitin.
Ka lura cewa actress yanzu ba ya so magana game da Ben Affleck, amma a baya ta yarda da kansa jawabin da ya yi magana a cikin shugabanci. A Howard Stern ta show, ta lura cewa ta "da kyau" a gare shi, sa'an nan kuma ya kasance kamar mutum "so-so" mutum. A cikin hira ta karshe da ta dauka don dangantaka da wasu kalmomi:
Ba mu da fahimtar juna, dangantaka ta ruhaniya mai karfi, kuma wannan shine dalilin samun nasarori da farin ciki. Idan ba za ku iya gina wannan duka ba, to, ban ga dalilin dalili ba game da nasara a rayuwa.
Chris Martin
Abokan hulɗa tare da mawaƙa Chris Martin ya jagoranci shekara ta 2003 zuwa halittar iyali da haihuwar yara biyu a cikin aure. Shekaru 11, injin ta, ta ce, tana gina iyali kuma ya makantar da hankali game da cin amana da mijin da kuma mawallafin kungiyar Coldplay. A shekarar 2015, ta ƙarshe ta ƙare, ta gaji da abin kunya.
Ya zama dangantaka mai wuya, dole in rufe idanuna sosai, don yin aiki a kan kaina don gina iyali mai karfi.
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- Matsayin maza guda 10, wanda matan da muke yi suna da kyau sosai munyi imani da su!
Brad Felchak
Littafin tare da darekta Brad Falchak ya kawo rai Gwyneth Paltrow bayan kisan aure mai raɗaɗi. Ma'aurata sun sadu da jerin shirye-shiryen talabijin "Luzery", duk da cewa Gwyneth yana da raƙuman matakai, ta sami damar jawo hankalin Brad kuma ta kama shi da murmushi.
Kwarewar kullun, darussan rayuwa - duk wannan ya faru a rayuwa, saboda haka na fahimci abin da nake so. Abin da ya fi dacewa, amma don zama mutum mai farin ciki, kana bukatar ka ƙaunaci kanka kuma ka fara sauraron sha'awarka.
Kamar yadda masu haɗari suka ce, ma'aurata suna da farin ciki da kuma shiga!