Jinƙan kishi

Abinda ke kishi shine mummunan rashin amincewa da cin amana da wani abokin tarayya, ba bisa duk wani shaida ko kai tsaye ba.

Barasa ko kwayoyin halitta?

Wannan cututtuka zai iya rinjayar mutane, ko da yake yana faruwa a cikin mata. Maganin da suka hada da magungunan ƙwayar wannan ƙwayar rashin tunani a kashi 80% na lokuta shine shan barasa da ragewa a aikin aiki. Kodayake, mutum ba zai iya kaskantar da yadda kwayar halitta ta kasance ba ga wasu cututtuka na tunanin mutum. Alal misali, a cikin marasa lafiya na wariyar launin fata, zalunci na kishi zai iya tashi a matsayin bayyanar alama, ta haifar da abubuwan da suka shafi tunani game da canza abin da aka haɗe, tare da rashin tunani da kuma rashin fahimtar gaskiya.

Shin kuna addu'a domin dare, Desdemona?

Ra'ayin kishi a cikin maza yana bayyana a ƙoƙarin ƙoƙari don kama ƙaunatacciyar ƙazantawa, shayewa, bincike sosai game da dukiyarta, sarrafa dukiyar waya ko sms da kuma zargi maras tushe. Duk gardama da akidar da akayi akasin haka ba su dace da shi ba. Ya fahimci kowace ƙoƙari na tabbatar da kansa, a matsayin ƙarin hujja na haƙƙinsa. Wani matalauci mai fama da wannan cuta ba zai iya jimrewa da mummunan ladabi game da biyayyarsa ba, wanda ya dogara ne akan ƙaddamarwar rashin daidaituwa, tsoron kasancewar watsi, ko wulakanci na wanin mutum. Yana da alama cewa idan har ya gano ko da wata shaida ta wata alama ce ta tabbatar da kasancewarsa abokin gaba, "haske" a gabansa zai haskaka, yana ba da gudummawa domin sake yunkurin da aka yi a cikin shi na tsawon lokaci kuma ya tabbatar da maganin wannan matsala ta kowane hanya, ciki har da kashe kansa ko kisan kai masu laifi, da kuma lokuta guda a lokaci ɗaya.

Yawancin lokaci bayyanuwar farko na kishi, yawancin alamunta suna rikita rikicewa tare da karuwa mai sauƙi a cikin tudu, farawa bayan shekaru 40, ko da yake zasu iya faruwa a farkon shekaru. Kamar yadda muka riga muka gani a yau, zalunci na kishi a cikin mata ya fi sauki, amma bayyanar cututtuka da kuma ainihin yanayin yanayin cutar sun kasance daidai da takwarorinsu na maza.

Abin takaici, a yawancin lokuta, mutanen da ke shan wahala daga wannan mummunan yanayi sun zama mummunar barazana ga wasu kuma suna buƙatar taimako mai taimako. Yin jiyya na kishi yana da lafiya, tare da yin amfani da neuroleptics kuma ya kamata a gudanar da shi a asibitin, karkashin kulawar wani gwani.