Don dalilai da dama, an tilasta wa maza da mata su kasance cikin hutawa. An sauya zubar da jima'i tsakanin mutane a cikin kowane hali daban-daban, kuma matsanancin takaici ko rashin tausayi daga rashin iyawa don jin dadin jima'i na yau da kullum ya dogara ne da yanayin da jin dadi na mutum.
Menene abstinence yake nufi?
Abstinence jima'i yana cikin ilmin kimiyya kimiyya mai cin zarafin jima'i ko ɓoyewa, halin da aka tilasta wa mutum a cikin rayuwar jima'i . Dalilin dalilan abstinence zai iya zama daban-daban:
- Jihar kiwon lafiya;
- babu abokin tarayya don jima'i;
- ayyuka na ruhaniya;
- abincin abincin dare (celibacy);
- zuwa gasar da za a yi a tsakanin 'yan wasan;
- Kayan aiki;
- dalilai na sirri.
Nau'in abstinence:
- Abstinence mai ban mamaki - rashin yiwuwar halayen halayen halayen halayen halayen halayen al'amuran halayya ne ko kuma gurɓataccen lalacewa a cikin maza (lalacewa na yau da kullum).
- Kullum abstinence - yin jima'i a cikin dukkanin bayyanar ba cikakku ba ne.
Me ya sa abstinence?
Tabbatar da zubar da hankali ya dogara akan dalilai da suka haifar da wannan yanayin. Raƙan gajeren lokaci a rayuwar jima'i yana taimakawa wajen girgiza zancen abokan tarayya da kuma inganta haɓaka ga juna. Dogon abstinence wajibi ne don mayar da karfi a lokacin da kuma bayan cututtuka mai tsanani, lokacin da dukkanin makamashi ke nufi don sake daidaitawa cikin jiki da raguwa da makamashi a yayin yin jima'i zai iya kara yanayin mutum. Abinda ya shafi jima'i ko jima'i ba shi da wata mahimmanci, wanda shine mahimmanci a cikin al'amuran ruhaniya a wasu addinai.
Abstinence a cikin mata
Ga mata, jituwar jima'i tare da abokin tarayya shine mahimmanci don haɗin kai da farin ciki. A cikin kusanci, wata mace ta yi furewa kuma ta haifar da kyakkyawan yanayin makamashi a kanta. Abstinence daga jima'i ga mata yafi kowa saboda dabi'un ka'idodin ilimin lissafin jiki: lokacin hawan mutum, ciki. Masu wakiltar jima'i na jima'i da matsanancin halin jima'i (choleric, sanguine) suna da wuya a jimre wa jinsin abstinence, wanda ya bambanta da 'yan matan phlegmatic da melancholic.
Yin amfani da abstinence a cikin mata
Dogon abstinence daga jima'i a cikin mata da matsananciyar halin jima'i ba shi da wani mummunar tasiri kuma har ma ya tabbatar da aikin da tsarin mai juyayi. A lokacin haila, hutu na jima'i ya hana shigar da kwayoyin halitta a cikin ɗakin da ke cikin mahaifa, wanda yake da wahala a kwanakin nan. Yana da muhimmanci a tuna cewa abstinence na gajeren lokaci don dalilai da yawa ba shine uzuri ga yanke ƙauna ba, amma damar da za a mayar da hankali ga al'amura masu kyau:
- Sabuntawar hankulan. A mawuyacin halin da ake ciki, akwai rikicewar fahimtar dangantakar, duk abin da ke faruwa a kan "sabon" kalaman, tare da ƙananan bakan ji.
- Sublimation shine tsari na sake fasalin karfi da jima'i zuwa halitta ko halitta. Halitta ayyukan fasaha, sababbin ayyukan, fasalin ra'ayoyin.
- Abstinence, a matsayin wajibi a lokacin daukar ciki - a cikin I da III ƙwanƙwasa tare da barazanar ɓata. Iyaye muhimmiyar mahimmanci ne ga iyali na iyali da farin ciki kuma amfanin abstinence bayyane yake.
Abstinence a cikin mata - sakamakon
Abstinence jima'i a cikin 'yan mata da matasan mata ba zai kai ga wata matsala mai tsanani ba, amma idan mace ta kasance cikin jima'i ta rayuwa don lokaci mai yawa, zubar da jima'i ba tare da dalili ba zai iya haifar da nau'o'in matsalolin da matsalolin da aka "tsara" a jiki matakan jiki da tunani. Sakamakon abstinence zai iya zama kamar haka:
- jimlar rashin daidaituwa;
- kiba;
- abu mai ban mamaki a cikin ƙananan ƙananan ƙwayar da ke taimakawa wajen samuwar sassan varicose;
- ci gaba da ciwon sukari (myoma, fibromyoma, mastopathy);
- Thyroid gland cututtuka;
- rage a yawan adadin kwayoyin halitta;
- furcin suturcin farawa ;
- high tunanin lability;
- canji na hali don mafi muni: m, m, callousness;
- yin jima'i;
- rikici a tsakanin abokan tarayya saboda rashin kusanci.
Abstinence cikin maza
Tare da maza duk mafi wuya, ta hanyar dabi'ar su, mafi karfi suna tunani game da jima'i, kuma physiology nan da nan ya sa kansa ji murna. Yawancin mutane, yayin da rana za ta yi farin ciki sau da yawa. Abstinence ga maza yana da wuya fiye da mata. Abstinence tilasta jima'i yana da matukar wuya a jure wa wakilan 'yan tawayen. Idan ba tare da abokin tarayya ba, maza suna so su fara yin al'ada fiye da mata.
Yin amfani da abstinence ga maza
Yana da amfani ko ba cin zarafin jima'i ga maza - babu wani ra'ayi mara kyau. Ƙananan rashin jima'i ba zai haifar da mummunar cutar ba, amma yana da ƙananan haɗin. Amfani da abstinence ya bayyana a lokuta masu zuwa:
- Cututtuka na jijiyoyin jini - a cikin tsufa, haɗuwar jima'i na yau da kullum yana ba da nauyi mai nauyi a zuciya, ba abin mamaki ba ne ga wani mummunan sakamako a lokacin jima'i daga ciwon zuciya ko bugun jini.
- Rashin kamuwa da cututtuka na cututtuka da jima'i - jin daɗi na ɗan lokaci yana da mummunan sakamakon da zai haifar da barazanar lafiyar da rayuwa. Jima'i ba tare da wajibi a jam'iyyun ba, fiye da sau ɗaya tilasta tuba ga maza.
- Hanyar kulawa da albarkatun jikinka. Kwanan nan binciken da masana kimiyya na kasashen waje suka yi sun yi watsi da kuskuren cewa abstinence mai hatsari ne. Yin nazarin abun da ke ciki na maniyyi, masana kimiyya sun yanke shawarar cewa ga kwayoyin halitta abu ne mai mahimmanci wanda yake dauke da lecithin, phosphorus, calcium da sunadarai. Tare da sadarwar jima'i da yawa, jiki ya rasa waɗannan mahimmancin albarkatun, sabili da haka, ƙananan tsarin kulawa yana fama da ciwo. Yi imani da wannan gaskiyar ko a'a, kowane mutum ya yanke shawarar kansa.
- Inganta spermatogenesis da maniyyi abun da ke ciki. Bayan 'yan kwanaki na abstinence kafin zuwan da aka tsara ya taimaka wajen karuwa a cikin aiki na spermatozoa, ƙara yawan chances na hadi. Akwai kuma ra'ayi na daban.
Abstinence na tsawon lokaci na maza - sakamakon
Abun hankalin mutum ga rashin mutuntaka ba amsar amsa ba ne, kowanne ɗayan, amma idan mukayi la'akari da alamun da ke zana hoto na mutum mai aiki a cikin matakan rayuwa da iyawa, kuma wannan shi ne mafi yawancin samari, to, tilasta wajibi ya ba da sanarwa ga lafiyar jiki. Dalilai masu tasiri na abstinence jima'i:
- ci gaba da karuwa a cikin sha'awar jima'i, kamar yadda irin wannan bayan dogon abstinence;
- janyo hanzari;
- ƙaddamar da ƙananan ƙwayoyin cuta da ƙananan haɓaka;
- tsoro da sababbin sababbin mutane;
- tausayi da zalunci;
- kawar da zubar da ciki;
- varicose veins na scrotum;
- ciwace-ciwacen ƙwayoyi (prostate adenoma, ciwon daji).
- rashin ƙarfi.
Abstinence a wasanni
Rashin jima'i a wasanni da aka saba da ita a zamanin d ¯ a, lokacin da shugabannin sojoji suka lura cewa dakarun da ba su da wata dangantaka sun nuna kansu mafi kyau a gasa da filin fagen fama. Don haka akwai wani ra'ayi na kwalliya cewa mai ba da horo kafin horo ya kamata ya maida hankalin sakamakon sakamakon yadda ya kamata. An san cewa dan wasan mai suna Mohammed Ali ya lura da rashin daidaituwa har tsawon watanni da rabi kafin yakin.
Abstinence in bodybuilding taka muhimmiyar rawa, ko da yake akwai rikice-rikice ra'ayin game da wannan ci. Abstinence da ci gaban tsokoki suna da alaƙa da juna ta hanyar cewa, tare da yawancin jima'i, matakin testosterone, wanda ke shafar yawan karuwa a cikin ƙwayar tsoka, ya zama mummunan lalacewa, a cikin prolactin, hormone mace, an samar. 'Yan wasa masu kwarewa sun san cewa jima'i yana da amfani bayan horo ko gasar, amma ba a gabansu ba.
Yadda za a koyi yin kaurin?
Idan mutum, ga kowane dalilai, ya yanke shawarar game da jinkirin jima'i (azumi, ayyuka na ruhaniya, rabu da ƙaunatacciyar tsawon lokaci na kasuwanci), ta yaya za ku ci gaba da jin zafi a wannan lokacin kuma ku koyi yadda za ku rage yawan sha'awar ku? Yana da mahimmanci mu tuna cewa wannan rashin tsakaitawa daga jima'i yana da amfani ga jiki.
Abin da zai iya taimaka wa masu aikin haɓaka:
- mayar da hankali ga ci gaban ruhaniya da kyautata rayuwar mutum;
- don ci gaba a wannan lokaci na kerawa da kerawa;
- yi dabaru daban-daban na tunani (tunani, tsaurin tunani a kan Osho);
- shiga cikin wasanni mai ban sha'awa.
Labari game da abstinence
Abstinence jima'i yana shrouded a cikin daban-daban speculations da stereotypes. Akwai wasu bayanan game da abstinence:
- Rashin jima'i zai iya haifar da cutar schizophrenia, ya haifar da tsinkaya ga pedophilia da zoophilia. Wannan ba gaskiya bane, tun da yake tushen wadannan bayyanarwa sun saba da mummunan hauka.
- Tsarin lokaci a cikin maza da mata na iya haifar da suma. Haka ne, akwai irin wannan abu a matsayin namiji. An yi imanin cewa kamfanonin ƙwayoyi sun kirkiro wannan labari don sayar da kwaroron roba.
- Canji na yin amfani da jima'i a cikin m yayin dakatarwa. Wani ɓangare na wannan gaskiya ne, idan mutum yana da haɓaka kuma ya damu da ra'ayoyin, lokacin da ƙananan hankalinsa ya wuce ba tare da jin dadi ba, ga kowa da kowa, yin hutawa yana sa akalla rashin jin daɗi.