A bikin aure yana daya daga cikin mafi muhimmanci kwanakin a cikin rayuwar kowane mutum. Tun daga zamanin d ¯ a har yanzu, yawancin shiga, karuwanci, al'adu suna hade da bikin aure, wanda, ba shakka, suna canjawa tare da lokaci. Yin la'akari da abin da za a ba da bikin aure ga ma'auratan - da farko tare da gayyaci abokai da dangi.
A Turai, kafin bikin aure, akwai samfurin musamman na kyauta da aka buƙata, abin da ake kira "Wish list", inda matasa suka nuna abin da suke so su samu don bikin aure. A wannan yanayin, baƙi suna jin daɗin shakku game da irin kyautar da za a yi wa sabon aure.
Yau na yau da kullum na bikin auren sun canza sosai a ƙarƙashin rinjayar al'adun Amirka da na Turai, a bayyane, kyaututtuka na bikin aure ga sabon auren suna ƙara zama maye gurbinsu da tsabar kudi, kofuna na zinariya ko kayan ado. Yanzu baƙi na gaba sunyi kokarin gano abin da ake buƙata ga sabon auren kuma ba su abin da suke bukata. Ko dangi dangi suna saya kyauta mai tsada wanda matasa ba zasu iya iya ba.
Bukatun don bikin aure ga sabuwarweds
Lokacin zabar kyauta ga matasa, mayar da hankali ba kawai a kan hadisai na al'ada ba, amma har ma a kan shekaru, matsayi, abubuwan da zaɓaɓɓun ma'aurata.
Idan matasa suna da gidan su ko gida - akwai sararin samaniya don tunaninka, ba duk abin da ya danganci gida, rayuwar yau da kullum, yara masu zuwa: kayan abinci na abinci, kayan ado, kayan ado, kyawawan kayan ado, zane-zane duk kyauta ne na gargajiya waɗanda ke bayarwa ga kowane bikin aure. Mafi sau da yawa yana nuna cewa ƙwararru biyu, mai mahaɗi ko mai ƙwaƙwalwa zai iya bai wa matasa. Don hana wannan daga faruwa, magana da matasa game da duk kyaututtuka a gaba - yanzu ba'a la'akari da abin kunya ba.
Idan sabon aure zasu zauna tare da iyayensu ko kuma haya ɗaki, to, kyautai ya kamata ya zama na sirri: kayan ado na zinariya, wayoyin tafi-da-gidanka, TV, kwamfutar tafi-da-gidanka, kwamfutar hannu , gidan wasan kwaikwayon gida. Ko wataƙila kana da damar da za ka ba kyauta mafi tsada, misali: biya saƙo, ba da mota ko rufe halin da ake ciki da wani bikin aure.
Ba abu mai ban mamaki ba ne don koyi game da abin da aka ba da shawarar kyauta don ba da bikin aure:
- tsofaffin ko amfani da abubuwa, ciki har da antiques;
- gilashi ko abubuwa masu kyan gani, tun lokacin da aka kwashe jita-jita a banza ba kome ba ne;
- hours;
- wukake, sanduna, karfe mai sanyi;
- madubai - don muhawara da laifuka;
- lu'u-lu'u - don hawaye;
- Wallets da jakunkuna - ba tare da kuɗi ba, a matsayin kaya mai banki - don matsalolin kudi.
Kyauta masu ban sha'awa ga sabuwarweds a bikin aure
A yau, ban da kyautar bikin aure da tsabar kudi, ana ba da kyautai na ainihi. Zai iya zama nishaɗi mai ban sha'awa, ra'ayi ko aikin fasahar zamani.
Alal misali: tafiya a cikin wani zakara, babban kolejin golf,
Yawancin kyauta masu ban mamaki kuma zasu iya kasancewa: hoto na haɗin aure na amarya da ango a cikin tarihin tarihi (zaka iya yin hoton hoto game da ma'aurata). Gina ya zama irin waɗannan kyaututtuka a matsayin '' yan zanga-zanga '' '' flash '' da '' yarinya mamaki ga 'yan matan auren' '.