Tun daga lokacin yaro muka yi amfani da ita, cewa a ranar Maris, 8th wani biki ne na uwaye. Kuma ko da yake yanzu an bayyana a kan kalandar "ranar haihuwar", a ranar 8 ga watan Maris har yanzu muna ci gaba da kawo kyauta da taya murna a kan hutu, na farko, ga mahaifiyata. Sai kawai kafin yin wannan, kana buƙatar yanke shawarar abin da za a ba mama ta ranar 8 ga Maris. Matsalar, ba shakka, ba shine mafi sauki ba, amma warwarewa.
Tun daga lokacin yaro muka yi amfani da ita, cewa a ranar Maris, 8th wani biki ne na uwaye. Kuma ko da yake yanzu an bayyana a kan kalandar "ranar haihuwar", a ranar 8 ga watan Maris har yanzu muna ci gaba da kawo kyauta da taya murna a kan hutu, na farko, ga mahaifiyata. Sai kawai kafin yin wannan, kana buƙatar yanke shawarar abin da za a ba mama ta ranar 8 ga Maris. Matsalar, ba shakka, ba shine mafi sauki ba, amma warwarewa. Hanyar mafi sauki ita ce shirya wani tambayoyi tare da jaraba (ko a tambayi wanda ya fi kusa) game da abin da Uwar zai fi son karɓar ranar Maris 8. Gaskiya ne, wannan hanya ba dace da kowa ba, wani ya kalubalantar yin tambayoyin irin wannan tambayoyin, kuma wani ya tabbata cewa kyautar dole ne ya kasance mamaki, sannan kuma ya wahala, ƙoƙarin yin mamaki. To, kyau, kada ku so ku sauƙaƙa rayuwarku, ba, dole ku yi tunani ba. Da farko, yana da daraja tunawa da ranar 8 ga watan Maris, ko da yake hutu na iyayenmu masu ƙaunataccen ƙaunatacce, amma tsada (a daidai lokacin da aka ba da kyauta) ba a karɓa ba, kuma, a gaskiya, babu mai jiran su. Saboda haka don sayen wani abu mai tsada, abu mai kyau da mara amfani ba shi da hankali, don haka zaka nuna cikakken rashin kulawa ga mahaifiyarka da damuwa. Ta hanyar, game da kulawa, kyauta mai kyau ga mahaifiyata zai zama taimako a shirya wani abincin dare a ranar 8 ga Maris, wanda aka yi amfani da kayan ado na furanni da ka fi so. Kuma, ba shakka, kasancewarku a wannan abincin dare, saboda babban abin da mahaifiyarku take buƙatar mu ne, wanda muke manta sosai don mantawa, yana karkata cikin al'amuran yau da kullum game da girma.
Hankali da kulawa yana da kyau, amma kuna so ku ba da wani abu mai yawa? Babu wani abu mai sauƙi, ra'ayin kyauta zai zo nan da nan a zuciyarka, da zarar ka tuna da sha'awa da dandano na mahaifiyarka. Mai ƙaunar da yake baƙin ciki a kan abubuwan da suka faru na littafi mai kyau zai zama farin ciki da littafin (watakila ba ɗaya) na marubucin ƙaunatacciyar ba, amma jikan zai yarda da bugu tare da shawarar lambu na lambu ko kwararan fure mai kyau.
Ka tuna, a lokacin da muke yaro muna tunanin cewa mahaifiyarmu ita ce mafi girma da kyau? Haka ne, babu shakka babu abin da ya canza, inna, kamar yadda ya fi kyau, amma wanda ya ce ba zaku iya taimakawa ta ji daɗi ba? Kuna iya yin shi a matsayin kyauta, wasu kyawawan kayan ado, wani abu daga kayan shafawa don kula da kanka ko takardar shaidar don ziyarar zuwa salon mai kyau. Ko watakila mahaifiyarka, uwargidan tana da matukar aiki kuma yana da sha'awar ta kawo nauyinta zuwa matsayinta ta lokacin rani? A cikin wannan burin ta, zaku iya taimakawa ta hanyar bada kyauta daga kayan wasanni don ɗakunan a gida ko biyan kuɗi zuwa ɗakin wanka (pool). Kuma idan kun je wurin dakin jiki kuma ku fara tafiya tare da shi, to, kada ku ba kyauta kyauta - yaya, irin wannan lokaci don ganin ku sau da yawa.
An yi la'akari da mummunan tsari don ba wa mata kayan aiki a ranar 8 ga watan Maris, sai su ce, saboda haka za ku bari uwargidan ta fahimci cewa ita ce kawai dafa. Amma idan mahaifiyarka tana son ka dafa kuma ba ta da wani abin da zai fi farin ciki don faranta wa iyalinsa rai tare da wani nau'in kayan aikin noma, to, kyauta daga wannan jerin za a karbi fiye da sanarwa.
Shin babu wata hanya ta saya wani abu da ya fi tsada fiye da akwatin kwakwalwa da kuma fadin furanni? Yana da kyau, kawai ka tuna da hasken farin ciki a cikin mahaifiyarka lokacin da kake, a matsayin yaro, suna ɗaukar zane-zanensa tare da launuka masu launi kamar kyauta. Ka tuna? Yana da ban mamaki, dama? Don haka menene ya hana ka daga maimaita irin abubuwan da ake amfani da su? Babu buƙatar zana wani abu, koda kuwa idan akwai damar da sha'awar, to, don Allah. Zaka iya, alal misali, gasa burodin bikin aure (cake) da kuma kalmomin dumi, gabatar da shi ga ƙaunataccen mutum da ƙaunatacciyar duniya.