Shin kishi wata alamar ƙauna ko rashin amincewa, yana da wuya a ce. A gaskiya ma, a cikin wannan jin dadin duk abin da ya haɗu: ƙauna , rashin amincewa, da dukiya. Bugu da ƙari, dukan saitin yana da yawa sau da yawa bisa ga girman kai da ba a kididdiga ba da kuma ƙananan hadaddun.
Kishin, to, kauna?
Mutum masu sirri da masu hankali, kishi yana da yawa a cikin ƙananan digiri. Bugu da ƙari, wani lokacin sukan gane gaban abokin hamayyar (ko kishiya) a matsayin kalubale kuma wannan yana da mahimmanci ga mahimmancin cigaban waje da na bunkasa kai.
A cikin mutane akwai ra'ayi cewa kishi wata alama ce ta ƙauna. Wannan gaskiya ne, amma har zuwa wani nau'i. Muna kishi ne kawai ga waɗanda suke, a cikin wani bangare na rikice-rikice, muna ganin su ne dukiyarmu, kuma ba tare da ƙarfin ƙauna ba, a gaskiya, muna jin daɗin wadannan mutane, kodayake halin da yake da kyau, da karfi da ƙauna, mafi zafi zai kasance da kishi.
Ƙidaya iko
Kishi, da ma'anarsa, ana la'akari da lalacewa. Musamman, wannan al'amari yana iya gani a cikin mutane waɗanda ke fama da rashin girman kansu, waɗanda suke ƙoƙarin ƙoƙari don tabbatar da cewa abin da aka haɗe su yana kasancewa a kullun ko a cikin kowane minti na sadarwar salula. Kowace iko a kan ayyukan da mai ƙaunar ya zama wajibi ne a gare su, kamar iska, saboda zurfi a cikin kwakwalwar da suke jin cewa ba su da matukar damuwa game da bayanai daban-daban, ko bayyanar ko matakin ruhaniya da na ilimi kuma suna kuskuren cewa karfe
Saboda haka, la'akari da kishi kamar alamar ƙauna, mai yiwuwa ba daidai ba ne. Da farko, ya zama dole ya fahimci abin da halaye na sirrin mutum yake haifar da shi a kowane hali. Musamman mawuyacin sune bayyanuwar mummunan kishi, wanda ya dogara ne akan wasu tsauraran ra'ayi daga al'ada kuma ya kamata a magance shi ta hanyar likita.