Kalandar bikin an ƙirƙira shi ne daga kakanninmu masu iyaka. Wannan kalandar ya nuna kwanakin da suka fi dacewa ga aure, da kuma kwanakin da ba'a ba da shawarar musanya zobba ba. A lokutan da suka wuce, mutane ba su sanya ranar bikin aure ba a rana mai ban sha'awa. Watakila, wannan shine dalilin da yasa aka kori iyayen kakanin mu da wuya. Daga ranar da aka zaba don bikin auren, farin ciki da lafiyar ma'auratan nan gaba sun dogara. A cikin zamani na zamani, mafi yawan magoya baya masu zuwa za su ƙayyade kwanakin ranaku don bukukuwan aure bisa ga kalandar bikin auren coci. Har ila yau, yana da kyau sosai don ƙayyade kwanakin bikin da ake dacewa don kalandar rana.
Bikin aure akan kalandar Orthodox
Aikin kalandar Orthodox yafi amfani da ma'aurata da za su yi aure. Wannan muhimmin ruhaniya na ruhaniya ne yake gudanar ba duk kwanakin ba, amma kawai a cikin cikakkiyar tsari. Jerin kwanakin nan yana canza kowace shekara. Akwai wasu dokoki na musamman, bisa ga abin da ba a gudanar da bikin ba:
- Ba'a gudanar da bikin a ranar Talata, Alhamis da Asabar;
- Ba'a gudanar da bikin aure a kan idin bukukuwa na coci (ranar kafin hutu);
- A bikin aure ba a gudanar a lokacin posts: Lent, Petrov azumi, Assumption azumi da Kirsimeti azumi;
- Ba'a gudanar da bikin aure daga 7 zuwa 19 Janairu (daga Kirsimeti zuwa Epiphany), daga 7 zuwa 13 Fabrairu (kafin Carnival), ranar Easter;
- Ba'a gudanar da bikin aure a ranar 10, 11, 26, 27 Satumba (kwanakin Beheading na Yahaya mai Baftisma da gina gicciye na Ubangiji);
- Ba'a gudanar da bikin a ranar kafin bikin haikalin (a kowanne haikalin akwai kalandar bukukuwa).
Mun bayar da kalandar Orthodox na bukukuwan aure don 2012. Bisa ga kalandar coci, ba a bada shawarar yin bikin aure ba don kwanakin nan masu zuwa:
- daga Janairu 1 zuwa 6 ga Janairu (Kirsimeti Post) daga Fabrairu 27 zuwa Afrilu 14 (Lent);
- daga Yuni 11 zuwa 11 ga Yuli (Petrov Post);
- daga Agusta 14 zuwa Agusta 28 (Uspensky post);
- daga Nuwamba 28 zuwa Janairu 6 (Kirsimeti Post).
Ranar maras kyau ga bikin aure shine kwanakin bukukuwa masu girma: a cikin Janairu - 7, 14, 18; a Fabrairu - 15, 18; a watan Afrilu - daga 15 zuwa 21, 28; a watan Mayu - 24; a watan Yune - 2, 3, 11; a watan Agusta - 19, 28; a watan Satumba - 10, 11, 21, 26, 27; a watan Oktoba - 14.
A kowane hali, kafin ka zaɓar ranar da ta fi dacewa don bikin aure, ya kamata ka juya wa firist na coci inda za ka yi bikin. Uba zai taimaka wajen tattara ranar kuma ya gaya maka abin da shirye-shirye ya kamata kafin bikin aure.
Lunar bikin aure
An san cewa taurari da wata zasu iya ƙayyade sakamakon mutum da abubuwan da suka fi muhimmanci a rayuwarsa. Zaɓin ranar bikin aure bisa ga kalandar labarun, marigayi da matar da ke nan gaba ba kawai karbi rana mai dadi ba, amma kuma a wasu hanyoyi ya ƙayyade zaman lafiya na aure. An shirya kalandar lunar don kowane shekara daban. Akwai kwanakin da, bisa ga kalandar rana, ba a bada shawarar yin aure ba:
- Kwanakin watanni mai duhu.
- kwanakin da watã yana cikin alamar Aquarius - irin wannan ƙawance zai iya tabbatar da gajeren lokaci;
- kwanakin da wata ya kasance a cikin alamar Scorpio ko Virgo - mutuwar mutuwar daya daga cikin ma'aurata;
- Ranar ranar allon rana.
Kwararrun malami ne kaɗai zai iya tsara wani kalanda na launi don auren aure. Ga ma'aurata waɗanda ba za su tuntubi mai duba ba, ba za a sanya ranar bikin aure a kwanakin da aka ambata a sama ba.
Hakika, ba kawai taurari ba ne kawai da albarka na coci shine mabuɗin farin cikin rayuwar aure. Ƙauna, amincewa, biyayya da mutunta juna - ba tare da waɗannan jijiyoyi ba, har ma ranar mafi mahimmanci ga duk alamun, ba zai iya ba da farin cikin rayuwar iyali ba.