Shahararren littafin William Atkinson mai suna The Power of Thought, ko Magnetism of Personality, yana ba kowa damar sanin abubuwa 15 da ke ba da damar rinjayar wasu mutane. Ba abin mamaki bane cewa wannan littafi ya sami nasara sosai: kusan kowane mutum yana mafarki na samun kyautar don yadawa kuma yana iya nema daga wasu mutane. Duk da haka, ana iya amfani da ikon yin tunani ba kawai ta umarnin Atkinson ba.
Manzancin ɗan adam
Wasu mutane da dabi'a suna da alhakin mutum - ikon da ya dace ba tare da ƙoƙari don jawo hankali ga wasu ba, don bayyana musu wani mutum mai iko, mai ban mamaki, mai hankali, don zama sirri wanda wanda yake so ya taɓa. Halin hali na hali, a matsayin mai mulkin, bai san inda wannan ikon yake fitowa daga zukatan mutane ba, amma da sauri ya koyi amfani da shi da riba.
Gane irin wannan mutumin zai iya zama mai sauƙi: yana janyo hankalin, yana ƙarfafa amincewa, yana jin babbar ƙarfin ciki. Ba za ku taba ganin irin wannan mutumin da yake shakkar kalmominsa ba - amincewarsa ta nuna a idanu, tattaunawa, nuna gwaninta. A matsayinka na mai mulki, mutane suna zuwa ga masu haɗaka, suna da daraja, suna sauraron ra'ayinsu.
Yadda za a yi amfani da ikon tunani?
Ko da ma ba ka kasance cikin masu sa'a ba wadanda ke da alamun haihuwa, za ka iya cim ma abin da ake bukata. Ikon tunani zai taimakawa cikin ƙauna, aiki, ci gaban mutum da kuma cikakken duk wani aiki na aiki. Yana da muhimmanci a koyon yadda za'a yi amfani da shi daidai.
Alal misali, kana so ka sami shahararrun mutane, suna so mutane su zo maka, ka nemi shawara naka. A wannan yanayin, kana buƙatar yin aiki akan al'amuranka da halayyarka, kuma ikon tunani zai taimake ka ka cimma abin da kake so.
Ka yi tunani idan kana da wani mummunan imani. Alal misali: "Ban taɓa son mutane ba", "Babu wanda yake son ni", "Ba na duban 100" ba. Duk wani imani wanda ya zauna a kansa, kwakwalwa yana ganewa a matsayin tawagar. A sakamakon haka, za ka kula kawai ga abubuwan da suka goyi bayan abin da aka ba da ra'ayi. Don sake sake hali naka, kana buƙatar canza abin da ka gaskata zuwa ga masu kyau.
Alal misali, maimakon "Ba na son kowa" kana buƙatar ka koya kanka don tunani "Ina son mutane, sun isa gare ni". Yi ikirarin wannan tunani sau da yawa a rana, kuma kwakwalwa zata iya ganewa a matsayin tawagar. A sakamakon haka, hankalin ku na hangen nesa zai matsa, kuma ku, akasin haka, za ku maida hankali a kan yanayi inda mutane ke kusa da ku, karfafa wannan imani da karɓar tabbaci.
Hakazalika, wanda zai iya aiki tare da imani a kowane filin. Kada ku jira sakamakon sauri: za ku maye gurbin tunani mara kyau tare da tabbatacce a cikin kwanaki 15-20, kafin sabon gashi ya saba muku a kanku kuma ya fara aiki.