Koda ma'aurata da suka yi dariya a yau da kullum, kafin ranar aure, sau da yawa sukan juya zuwa ga tushen "hikimar mutane" kuma suna kallon alamun aure da al'adu. Wasu - don kanka, kawai a yanayin, da sauransu - kawai don jahilci bai damu baƙi da wani abu wanda ba a karɓa ba ko kuma mummunan alamar.
Alamun game da launi na bikin aure
A Rasha, 'yan mata sun yi aure a cikin mafi kyaun jan sarafan sarauta, amma a hankali wannan Turai ta rinjaye wannan salon, wanda mafi kyawun zaɓi shine saƙar fata. Yanzu masu zane-zane suna ba da launi daban-daban, ciki har da wadanda ba na gargajiya ba. Mawallafi mai ban sha'awa Vera Wong ya saki tarin kayan ado na baƙar fata, wanda kuma yana da shahararren mutum a kowane fanni.
Duk da haka, hikimar jama'a ta danganta launi na bikin aure da rayuwar rayuwar matasa. Alamun game da wannan sune kamar haka:
- tufafi fararen - aure mai albarka, kare daga sama;
- Gashi na farin - don dogon ƙauna da iyali farin ciki;
- tufafi mai launin zaki - ma'aurata za su yi sanyi a junansu;
- blue dress - a harbinger na zina a cikin aure;
- launin ruwan kasa - matasa zasu raba dukiyoyinsu;
- launin rawaya - ga dan gajeren rayuwar iyali;
- ja ado - aure yana barazanar zama tashin hankali da tashin hankali;
- siliki ko tufafi na zinari - wata harbinger na aure mai arziki da mazaunin gida;
- wando baki - daya daga cikin ma'aurata a hadarin shuka shuka.
- yar kore - aure ba tare da fata ba.
Duk da haka, yi imani da alamun auren aure ko a'a ba lamari ne ga kowa ba. Babban abu na amarya shine la'akari da ra'ayi ba kawai ga mahaifiyar da budurwa ba, har ma da ango, kuma idan ya juya ya zama mutum ne na karuwa, ya fi kyau a dauki matsayi. A ƙarshe, ya kamata ka so wannan riguna a farkon wurinsa.
Bikin aure game da zobba
Idan kana zuwa duk kantin kayan ado, za ka ga babban adon zinare ga kowane dandano. Daga farin da ruwan hoda, tare da lu'u-lu'u, tare da alamu da almakashi - yana da wuya a zabi daga wannan iri-iri abu ɗaya!
Duk da haka, idan kun yi biyayya da alamun, to, zaɓin ya zama mai sauƙi - dole ne ku tafi madaidaiciya zuwa zane-zane tare da samfurori masu kyau kuma ku zaɓa sautin zinariya mai tsabta, ƙira guda ɗaya ga amarya da ango. Bayan haka, hikimar mutane ta ce: idan zoben yana da sassauka kuma rai zai zama santsi, kuma idan akwai kullun da zanga-zangar a kan zobe, rai zai faru a cikin tashe-tashen hankula, hargitsi, ƙuƙwalwa da ƙasa.
Alamani game da takalma na bikin aure
Game da takalma, hikimar jama'a kuma tana da jerin abubuwan da suke da shi. Damarar da aka zaɓa ba za ta iya zama mummunan ƙaura na talauci na iyali ko ma raguwa ba:
- idan akwai ramuka akan takalma - rayuwar iyali za ta kasance matalauci;
- idan takalma na amarya, kuma ba takalma - kuma zai yi tafiya a kullun a rayuwata;
- yana da muhimmanci a zabi takalma ba tare da takalma ba - wannan mummunan yanayin haihuwa ne;
- cewa iyalin yana da wadatacce, kana buƙatar saka tsabar jan karfe cikin takalmin;
- cewa iyalin sun rayu da wadata, dole ne a saka tsabar kudin a takalmin takalma na ango;
- idan diddige ta karya daidai a lokacin bikin aure - za a sami rayuwar iyali tare da matsaloli;
- idan amarya tana cikin ofishin rejista, kuma ta rasa ta takalman - za a yi matsala da matsala a rayuwa;
- idan takalma kafin bikin aure ana sawa akalla 'yan kwanaki - zuwa aure mai nasara;
- cewa aure ya kasance mai farin ciki, dole ne a sayi takalma a ranar Jumma'a.
Tare da alamomi ga riguna da takalma, akwai alamun game da bikin aure. Alal misali, an yi imani da cewa tsawon lokacin rufewa, tsawon lokaci zai zama rayuwar iyali, kuma farin ciki a cikin aure zai kasance tare da amarya wanda ya zaɓi launin ruwan hoda ko fari. Fatou ba wanda ya yarda ya auna ko ma ya riƙe hannunsa - wannan abu ne mai kare lafiyar iyalin biyu.