To, wanene daga cikinmu yana cikin damuwa ba ya yi alkawuran ba, kamar "na haihuwar ranar haihuwar zan yi kilogram 50" ko "Zan yi aure na farko da na sadu, idan ban sami rabi zuwa 30 ba?" Amma abu ɗaya ne - don fitar da motsin zuciyarmu da kwantar da hankula, kuma wani abu - don ɗauka da cika alkawarinsa!
Za ku yi mamakin, amma mutanen da suke da alhakin suna nan, kuma daya daga cikin su ya zama sananne ga dukan duniya. Saduwa - sunan wannan yarinyar Laura Messe, tana aiki ne a matsayin mai horar da kayan horo kuma wata daya da ta yi aure ... don kansa!
Ya bayyana cewa shekaru biyu da suka wuce ta ɓata tare da mutum bayan shekaru 12 da aka kashe tare. Daga nan sai ta damu ƙwarai saboda rashin dangantaka da hutu, kuma ta ba ta magana ga kanta da iyalinta cewa idan kafin ta hadu da shekaru 40 da ita ta ƙauna kuma ta kai shi ga kambi, sai ta zuga a kan kome kuma ta yi aure don kanta!
Kamar yadda ka iya ganewa, shekaru biyu sun wuce da sauri, amma Laura ba ta sami magoya baya ba. Kuma kuna tsammanin ta gaji ne? Kuma a nan ba ...
"Kuna iya rayuwa a cikin banki da kuma ba tare da dan sarki ba," in ji yarinyar. "Kuma na tabbata cewa, na farko, kowannenmu ya ƙaunaci kanmu!"
Don haka, ganin cewa don ranar haihuwar ranar haihuwar ta 40 ba ta da wanda zai ce "yes" kafin bagaden, Laura ya fara cika alkawarinsa.
Ta sanya ranar yin aure tare da kanta kuma har ma ya fara shirya ainihin bikin. A wata kalma, a ranar ta musamman, Laura ba ta rasa wani bayani game da bikin auren gargajiya ba: ya yi ado a cikin tufafi mai tsabta, ya gayyaci baƙi 70, ya kewaye shi da mata masu aure, ya kula da zobba, bukukuwan aure da bikin aure, kuma ya shirya wani babban taron.
Abin da kawai bai isa ga wannan bikin aure - ango ba!
Duk abin da yake, daga ra'ayin doka, irin wannan bikin ba ya nufin wani abu. Amma, alal misali, kowace shekara wannan yanayin da aka kira "sologamiya" ya fara samun karfin zuciya. An ji labarin cewa magoya bayan "sologamy" tare da irin wannan aure suna nuna ƙauna ga kansu, yarda da kansu kamar yadda suke, da kuma ƙididdigar amincewa da zamantakewa. To, a karo na farko rahotanni game da mutanen da suka yi aure kansu, ya bayyana a 1993.
Yin la'akari da hotuna da Laura Messe ta raba a cikin hanyar sadarwar zamantakewa, ta rabu da cikakken lokacin hutunta, da lokacin da za ta gaishe dukan baƙi, ta yanke ta bikin aure kanta, kuma bayan duk abin da ta tafi a kan sa'a ...
To, yana da zafi! Kuma ko da yake wannan shi ne abin da Laura ba daidai ba - sumba!