Sadar da ba na magana ba - gestures

An san cewa har zuwa kashi 70 cikin dari na duk bayanan da aka samu game da wanda ya yi hulɗa da shi, ya karɓa, bai dace ba, ba daga kalmominsa ba, amma bisa ga labaran da ba na magana ba (gestures, facial expressions, da dai sauransu). Rashin ikon karanta harshen jiki yana daga cikin manyan nasara a cikin fasaha na sadarwa. Amma yana da mahimmanci a tuna cewa babu wata alama da za ta yi la'akari da bambanci daga wasu. Domin shi ne hadaddun da ya sanya daidai fassarar daidai.

Gestures - hanyoyin da ba a bayyana ba

Kafin ka ci gaba da karatun hankalin abokin hulɗarka, ka tuna cewa ko da yaushe suna la'akari da halin da ake ciki, yanayi. Bayan haka, alal misali, wauta ne don yankewa cewa mutum baya so ya sadarwa, idan ya keta hannunsa da ƙafafunsa yayin da yake zaune a tasha, ya ɗaga kafafunsa kawai domin yana da sanyi a waje.

Gestures na iya zama tabbaci ga abin da aka fada, kuma kada ku dace da wannan. Idan wannan dangantaka ta kasance, to, kawai suna ƙarfafa abin da aka fada, kuma a cikin yanayin da babu wanda - yana da daraja a kula da aikin, saboda a cikinsu zaku sami mai yawa wanda ba ku san shi ba.

Harshen haruffan a matsayin ma'anar hanyar sadarwa tana haɗi da matsayin zamantakewa da kuma shekarun mutum. Sabili da haka, gudun motsi ya ragu, gesture yana ragewa a lokuta na 'yan kwalliya, masu ilmantar da hankali ko kuma wadanda, saboda wani cututtuka, suna fuskantar matsaloli a lokacin ƙungiyoyi.

Sadarwa marar kyau: babban nau'i na alamar alamar

1. Gesticulation da hannayensu. Hukuncin mai magana yana nuna, idan, kun rungumi hannuwanku, ya rufe shi da kansa ko a cikin yanayin da ya miƙa hannunka sama sama. Mutane masu girman kai sun fi son ƙwaƙwalwa. Ku dubi sosai idan abokinku ya bar yatsunsa a farfajiya yayin da yake ɗora hannunsa cikin aljihunsa, wannan ya nuna burinsa ya ɓata ku.
2. Tsaro da kai hari. Alamar kariya ita ce bayan kujera, lokacin da mutum ya fi so ya zauna a kansa. Tabbatar da wannan kariya zai yiwu idan ka gudanar da zance, kallon mai kira daga sama, ko ba shi kujera tare da makamai. Matsayi na kare - an ragu da kai. Canja halin da ake ciki, motsa abokin tarayya don juya shi gaba ɗaya (alal misali, haifar da sani ga wani abu).
3. Gestures gestures. Sun taɓa wani abu na musamman, ko da yake yana da wani.
4. Abin sha'awa. Wannan zane yana nuna a fili a cikin kallo, wanda yake tare da murmushi. Domin yin tasiri da ra'ayi na mai shiga, zance shi a wani abu, bayan haka ya kamata ka canja wurin zuwa matakin idanunka.