Abstinence

Ba al'ada ba ne don magana game da ita a cikin murya, sabili da haka ba shi da wuya a yi tsammani cewa game da wani abu mai ƙauna sosai. Abstinence jima'i shine tsari na canji na jima'i. Cikakken rashin jin dadi, duk da kasancewar bukatun bukatun jima'i. Mutumin ya ƙi yarda da yanayin jima'i.

Mene ne ke barazana ga abstinence?

A cikin ci gabanta, yawanci 2 samfurori an bambanta, dangane da tsawon lokaci.

1. Ba abstinence ba tsawon lokaci. Mutum yana jin zaman lafiya da kwanciyar hankali, ba tare da fuskantar wani rashin jin daɗi ba.
2. Dogon abstinence. Mutumin yana jin dadin rashin jima'i da rashin jin dadi, wanda ya danganta da rashin gamsuwa da bukatun.

Abstinence mace shine dalilin da ya faru na 60-80% na jijiyoyi. Bugu da ƙari, kashi 70 cikin 100 na jima'i na jima'i suna fama da rashin aiki a cikin aikin aiki saboda ƙananan bukatun jima'i.

Shin abstinence cutarwa ga mata?

Masana kimiyya sun gano mahimman dalilan da ya sa abstinence ga mata shine mafita mafi mahimmanci ga halin da ake ciki yanzu.

1. Haduwa . A lokacin tsawon lokaci, wanda ya kasance daga watanni 6 zuwa shekara, jiki yana buƙatar canje-canje mai yawa na yanayi mara kyau. Da farko, lalacewar yana rinjayar kawai psyche na 'yan mata. Zai iya bayyana kansa a cikin tunanin da'awar, jaraba don sake bin hanyoyin, da halayen kisa, rashin fushi, tashin hankali ba tare da rikici ba. Bugu da ari, canje-canje na faruwa a matakin ilimin lissafi: ci gaba da cututtuka na ƙirji da kuma matakai masu mahimmanci a cikin yankin pelvic.
2. Age abstinence. Abstinence daga jima'i a cikin mata wadanda, saboda ƙuruciyarsu, ba su da kwarewa sosai a yanayin jima'i ko kuma ba su da abokin auren dindindin.
3. Rhythms na jiki. Irin wadannan laifuffuka sun fi sau da yawa a cikin mutane a karkashin 25 ko a cikin sabon auren. Ba halin da yawa ba ne ta hanyar kaucewa daga halayen jima'i, ta hanyar rashin daidaitarsu, saboda wani lokacin maimaita jima'i zai iya faruwa sau da yawa a rana, kuma wani lokaci ba ya faru a cikin 'yan makonni.
4. Mikiyar ciwo. Mafi yawan nau'in abstinence jima'i, wanda ya kasance daga shekaru uku ko fiye. Mata a cikin wannan hali sun daina bin bayyanar su kuma suna fara yin mummunar damuwa ga duk abinda ya faru. Rashin ciwo na cervix ko ciwon nono, rashin haihuwa - wannan shi ne abin da abstinence zai iya haifar da.

Jima'i bayan abstinence

Maimaita jima'i bayan abstinence mai tsawo, saboda mata da yawa matsala ce. A yayin da matar ta sami zarafi ta mika wuya ga ƙaunar jin dadi, ta yi hankali ta ketare kofa na dakuna a cikin rashin sani.

Sakamakon abstinence a cikin mata na iya kasancewa a cikin wani matsala ta "gwauruwa", wanda yake nuna kanta a cikin ragewar mayar da hankali ga abokiyar abokin tarayya da kuma sakamakon rashin yiwuwar cimma burin. Masanin jima'i don sauri komawa zuwa al'ada na bada shawara don yin al'ada, don haka tsarin mai juyayi "ya tuna" yadda ya kamata ya amsa ga aikawa.

Fara dangantaka tare da abokin tarayya, kada ka yi gaggawa, saboda duka abokan tarayya suna da sha'awar shiga cikin dangantaka mai kyau. Kada ku tilasta wa kanku yin jima'i, bari abokin tarayya ku fahimci cewa kuna buƙatar karin lokaci don komawa al'ada. Lokacin da wannan lokacin ya zo, kada ku sake komawa wajen bayyanar jima'i da rabi na biyu zai ji dadin ku.