Yanayin jinsi daban-daban - yadda za a sami sulhu?

Wasu mutane suna tunani akai game da jima'i, amma ga wasu ba shi da mahimmanci, duk zargi ne ga yanayin daban-daban.

Zuwa dangantaka tsakanin ɗayan biyu ya kasance mai kyau, saboda haka abokan tarayya suna da nauyin yanayin jima'i. Yawancin baƙin cikinmu, yana da wuya a canza su a kowane hanya ba tare da lahani ga lafiyar jiki ba. Dalilin wannan shine hawaye. Alal misali, idan mace tana da ciwon isrogen a cikin jikinsa, samun jigon mawuyacin hali zai zama da wuya, kuma a madadin.

Nau'in yanayin jima'i

Akwai nau'o'i 3 da ke da alamarsu.

Babban yanayin jima'i

Irin waɗannan mutane suna da sha'awar buƙata da sha'awar gwaje-gwaje a cikin gado, kawai 10%. Abubuwan rarraba:

• farkon maturing wani wuri a cikin shekaru 12;
• jima'i yana daya daga cikin manyan al'amurran rayuwa;
• sau da yawa mutane sun watsar da farawa, saboda tsari yana da muhimmanci a gare su;
• idan ba ku cika burin abokin tarayya ba, zai iya zuwa wani.

Low yanayin jima'i

Ga irin waɗannan mutane, jima'i ba shi da mahimmanci. Wannan yanayin shine muhimmi ne kawai 1% na mutane. Abubuwan rarraba:

• balaga daga baya;
• watakila kawai abokin aure ne kawai don rayuwa;
• isa ya yi jima'i sau ɗaya a wata;
• Wadannan mutane suna son ƙauna da sauran soyayya.

Matsayin halin jima'i

Mafi yawan mutane, kimanin 80% daga cikinsu. Abubuwan rarraba:

• M, ba su da jima'i fiye da sau 3 a mako;
• sau da yawa sau da yawa canza abokan tarayya a kowane zamani, amma tun lokacin wannan sha'awar an rage;
• sauƙin sauƙi ga wani abokin tarayya.

Hadaddiyar yanayin yanayin jima'i

Ainihin, abokan hulɗar suna da irin wannan yanayi. Har ila yau, ba wata mummunan ra'ayi na dangantaka tsakanin ma'aurata da ke da matsakaici da matsakaici, da kuma matsakaici da matsakaici. Idan mutum yana da mummunan halin jima'i kuma mace bata da kyau, to, abokin tarayya na daɗewa zai yi tunanin cewa abokinsa yana da sanyi, kuma idan akasin haka, za a ɗaure lakabi marar nauyi a kan mutumin.

Mene ne idan yanayin bai dace ba?

Kyakkyawan jima'i ya kamata ya ba da gudummawa ga aboki biyu Idan kuna ƙaunar juna, to, za a iya samun sulhuntawa a wannan al'amari.

Idan kana da matsananciyar jima'i, da kuma ɗan mutum:

1. Dauki lokaci kuma ku haɗu da abokinku wanda ake kira "jima'i jima'i", wanda ya ƙayyade kwanakin ayyukan aiki da kuma m. Wannan hanya, bisa ga masana kimiyya, zai taimaka wajen samun jituwa a cikin wannan al'amari.
2. Aiwatar da ka'idar "karas da sanda", wato, daga lokaci zuwa lokaci yayi kauna da ƙaunarka, ba shi wasan jima'i da sauransu, kuma a wasu kwanakin sanyi da dakatar da su. Godiya ga wannan, zai fahimci cewa ba ku yi amfani da ita don jin dadinku ba.
3. Ku dubi batsa, zai taimaka wajen sa sha'awar mutum da kuma canza rayuwarku.
4. Yi amfani da fasaha na mata - sa ka ƙaunaci kishi , kawai kada ka wuce shi.

Idan mutum yana aiki kuma ba ku da:

1. A mafarauci da dabi'a, wani mutum zai ci nasara da kai a kowane hanya mai kyau, don haka shakatawa kuma ka yi farin ciki.
2. Ayyukanka shine karyata wanda kake ƙauna a kusanci don kada ya dauki laifi kuma baiyi tunanin cewa ba'a so. Koyi ya ce "a'a" saboda haka yana sauti kamar shi "yes", amma don nan gaba.
3. Ka yi kokarin karanta litattafai tare da jima'i, watakila za su kara buƙatarka. A nan, alal misali, tarihin ban sha'awa na yau da kullum "50 tabarau na launin toka" zai yi daidai.
4. Idan abokin tarayya yana buƙatar nagartacce, kuma ba ka so wannan cikakke. ci gaba da yin barazanar da kuma bayar da jima'i ba tare da wani lokaci ba. Ga ƙaunataccen, zai kasance kamar wasan.