Kowane mutum na da mahimmanci, kuma, na farko, ya bambanta ta wurin ciki, dabi'un halayensa, waɗanda suke nunawa cikin halinsa ga wasu, ayyukan jama'a, aiki. A cikin haɗuwa da haɗin kai, haƙuri, haɓakawa, lalata, da dai sauransu suna bayyana kansu. Wasu halaye na halin mutum zai iya aiki da kansa. Game da wannan da wani, zamu yi magana a cikin dalla-dalla.
Formation da bayyanar hali
Nau'in abu ne na halayen mutum kuma an samo shi daga asali masu zuwa:
- asalin kwayoyin halitta (kwayoyin halitta zasu iya ƙayyade yawan halayen kowane mutum zuwa wani aiki na musamman);
- tasirin halin yanzu akan mutumin da kansa;
- sassaucin ra'ayi na wasu kaya na sirri.
Ya kamata a lura da cewa tun daga lokacin yaro ya fara kirkirar dabi'u. Hakanan, wannan maɗaukaki ya rinjayi shi. Bayan shekaru, ingantawa, mutum zai iya bunkasa halaye na ciki. Saboda haka, manufar ta samo asali ne ta hanyar dalili, karfi da aiki mai karfi.
Kamar yadda aka sani, halin mutumin yana nuna kansa a cikin wasu dangantaka, amma wadannan sune halayyar:
- Halin mutum zuwa ga wasu mutane (wannan yana bayyana a cikin zumunci ko rabu da shi, rashin tausayi ko dabara, gaskiya ko munafurci, yaudara). Wannan hali kuma ya samo asali ta sirri na mutum.
- A cikin dangantaka da kansa, irin waɗannan nau'in halayen mutum kamar yadda ake zargi, mutunci, amincewa da kansa da narcissism sun bayyana kansu.
- A cikin dangantaka da dukiya, kulawa ko rashin kulawa an ji shi, karimci shine lalacewa, ɓarna-ɓata.
- Dangane da yanayin: aiki da hankali - lalata, rashin gaskiya - alhakin.
Matsayi mai mahimmanci a cikin samuwa da haɓaka dabi'ar halayen kirki suna nunawa ga sauran mutane, al'umma a matsayin cikakke. Yanayin kowane mutum ba za'a iya fahimta ba, ya bayyana, ba tare da sanin halinsa ba a cikin haɗin kai.
Halin halin halayyar
Ba su da haɓaka, sabili da haka, kowa yana da hakkin ya ilmantar da su cikin kansu. Masanin kimiyya mai sanannen tarihi. I. Pavlov ya jaddada cewa mutum ne kawai tsarin rayuwa wanda zai iya bunkasa kansa. Don haka, masu jinƙai suna godiya ga aikin da aka yi tunani a hankali don yin aiki. Domin a cikin balagagge mutum ba shi da matsala tare da nuna halin kirki a cikin rikice-rikicen, dole ne a ci gaba da su daga ƙuruciyar ƙuruciya, horar da sha'awar da kuma bunkasa irin waɗannan halaye irin na:
- aiki;
- kamun kai-da-kai, jimre (ikon da zai iya kula da halin mutum a cikin yanayin rayuwa mai wuya, kaucewa daga bala'i da bala'i ba tare da bata lokaci ba, wuce kima a cikin ayyukan);
- ƙaddara (ikon yin shawara mai dacewa, ikon, a waccan yanayin, don dakatar da wani mataki idan ya rasa amfani);
- ƙarfin hali, ƙarfin zuciya, abin da ya bambanta halaye na matsorata.
Abubuwan halayyar kirki
Mutanen da ke da halayyar mai karfi suna da tsayayya a kan ƙarshen mafi rinjaye, kuma sau da yawa al'amuransu an saita a matsayin misali ga wasu. Sun bambanta da cewa yanayin su ne:
- dagewa, wanda zai taimaka wajen kare rayuwar mutum, matsayi;
- manufa, godiya ga wanda hali ya sami abin da ake so, wanda tabbas yana ƙarfafa ƙarfin kansa;
- juriya, domin, ta hanyar aiki mai wuyar gaske, kowane mutum zai iya noma waɗannan ko wasu siffofin hali.
Yanayin hali mara kyau
Wadannan sun haɗa da dukkanin halayen da ba zasu taimaki mutum ya cimma burin da ake bukata ba, taimakawa wajen samun hanyar fita daga cikin matsala mai rai, ba zai taimaka wajen cika kansa ba:
- rashin ƙarfi;
- haske mai haske;
- unpredictability;
- rashin tabbas.