Ba'a sananne ne ga 'yan adam tun zamanin d ¯ a, kuma ya haɗu da ra'ayoyin girman kai a addini, da zazzaɓi na zazzabi a cikin layi na kasuwancin nuni, girman kai, girman kai a cikin dangantaka tsakanin mutane. Mene ne abin banza, yadda yake shafi mutum da sauransu - masana mafi kyau na 'yan Adam - masana falsafanci, firistoci, masana kimiyya, masana kimiyya, sunyi ƙoƙari su fahimta.
Mene ne ma'anar ƙarya?
Gaskiyar ta fito ne daga kalmomi guda biyu "maras amfani" da "daukaka." V.I. Dal - babban masanin kimiyya na harshen Rashanci a cikin takardun bayani ya bayyana cewa girman mutum irin wannan shine burin wasu mutane don girmamawa, yabo, daukaka ta duniya, fahimtar dabi'u na dabi'u. Bukatar zama batun tattaunawa da haɗari ga hankali suna da muhimmanci a cikin mutane da kuma a cikin zamani.
Gaskiyar daga ra'ayi na ilimin halin mutum
Dalilin dalilai suna ɓoye a cikin yara. Masanan ilimin kimiyya sunyi imani da cewa a matsayin girman kai, wani muhimmin mahimmanci shine iyayen da iyaye suka fahimta, yayin da suke duba wasu nasarori na yaro. Sakamakon yabo ya shafi rinjayar da ake gani a matsayin mutum, rashin girman kai da girman kai yana haifar da girman kai. Mutum zai iya gane "cutar kuturta" a cikin kansa? Akwai alamu na banza:
- jin dadi daga ladabi;
- da sha'awar karkatar da abubuwan da ke faruwa a kan mutum;
- m mayar da martani ga duk wani zargi (m, ba mai gina jiki);
- Magana mai zurfi, da bambanci tare da ayyukan (bambancin tsakanin magana da aikatawa);
- yanayin haɓaka.
Mene ne maƙaryacin mutum yake nufi?
Ganin kansa a matsayin mutum shine tsari mai rikitarwa, wanda ke haɗuwa da motsin zuciyarmu ta hanyar haɓaka ko rashin rashin ilimi a lokacin da babu ka'idoji da kuma haramtawa da haɓaka. Mutumin banza shine mutum mai haske a farkon gani, yana jawo hankali ga mutane. Masanin farfadowa na Austrian A. Adler, ya yi magana akan wani mutumin banza kamar yadda yake cike da cewa babu wani wuri ga wasu. Ta yaya banza yake bayyana kanta:
- Bayyana ra'ayi, tunani - yanayin na ciki zai iya bambanta daga bayyanarwar waje (burin shine kama duk wanda ya yiwu masu sauraro).
- Saukar da wani mutum domin jin dadi (ya bayyana a cikin mata).
- Bukatar yin aiki nagari kuma ka gaya wa wasu abin da "Ni mai kyau".
- Mafi rinjaye na bukatar "tauraron" - ba tare da sanin ma'anar aiki ba, sana'a wanda aikinsa yake da muhimmanci ga mutum (nasara ga nasara).
- Kishi da alaka da wadanda suka sami wani abu a rayuwa.
Gaskiyar abu ne mai kyau ko mara kyau?
Duk wani abu mai mahimmanci yana da nasarori masu kyau. Menene mutuntakar mutum kuma akwai lokuta masu kyau a ciki - dangane da mai amfani? Akwai lokuta mafi ma'ana, amma akwai wasu sifofi na banza:
- taimaka wajen cimma nasara da karfin (musamman a cikin kasuwancin kasuwanci);
- shine tsarin farawa ga kowane ɗan adam: binciken a cikin babban jami'a, gabatarwa a cikin wani aiki.
Mene ne abin banza a kan mummunan hanyar:
- Matsalar mafi muhimmanci ta banza ta kunshi gaskiyar cewa mutum ba ya amfana wa jama'a kuma an kafa shi a kan kansa kawai.
- Mutanen da ba su da kyau, yana da wuyar kasancewa cikin dangantaka da ƙaunatattun mutane: girman kai, girmankai da girman kai, sun kori mutane.
- Rashin cigaban ruhaniya yana kusan bazuwa, a cikin matsanancin hali mutum zai iya shiga cikin sashin megalomania (yanayin tunanin mutum) lokacin da yake tunanin kansa cikakke ne.
Gaskiya da girman kai - menene bambanci?
Zuciyar kai da kai kan kai shine filin da girman kai da girman kai suke "haɓaka." Cikakken mutum game da kansa, nasarorin nasa. Anyi girman kai a matsayin rashin tausayi na mutum da girman kai. A cikin banza, mutum zai iya fahimtar mummunan yanayin "Matsayinsa", a cikin girman kai akwai cikakkiyar rashin kulawa ga wasu daga baya da girmamawa. A dukan addinan duniya, girman kai babban zunubi ne.
Ambition da girman kai su ne bambance-bambance
Bukatar mutum ya kasance mafi kyau a cikin zamantakewar zamantakewar al'umma yana mutunta. Don zama likita mai ban mamaki, malami, ya ɗauki nauyin aikin ku da dukan alhakin kuma ya kasance misali ga wasu shi ne abin da ya bambanta son zuciya daga abin banza, inda hankalin "banza" ya janyo hankalin mutum. Ambition da girman kai - akwai layi mai kyau a tsakanin su lokacin da inganci ɗaya zai iya zuwa wani: haka mutum ya fara yin alfahari da abubuwan da suka wuce da kuma yadda ya dace a ra'ayinsa ya yi wa jama'a.
Yadda za a kawar da abin banza?
Da zarar mutum ya fahimci cewa yana cikin zaman talauci da muhimmancinsa a kan ladabi, yayinda wasu suka fahimta, ya yi fada don kulawa da tawagar - akwai babban tunanin tunani da tunani don shawo kan kansa. Yadda za a magance ƙazantattun abubuwa - wasu shawarwari daga masu ilimin kimiyya:
- Yin amfani da kima shine ingancin cewa, a cikin iyakacin iyaka, yana taimakawa wajen kawar da ƙazantaccen abu kuma ba a huta a kan labarun na samun nasarar nasara ba.
- Yi kwatankwacin nasarar da kake samu tare da nasarar wasu mutane - tuna cewa akwai wani mutum wanda ya fi kyau, mafi mahimmanci, mafi nasara.
- Ka ɗauki misalin shahararren mutane waɗanda, a cikin nasarar su, ba su kasance masu hasara ba: Uwar Teresa, Mohammed Ali, Keanu Reeves - mutuncin mutane na duniya
- Bayar da nasara da nasarar da ake samu ita ce, samun nasara ne ta hanyar shiga wasu mutane a rayuwar mutum. Adopar wannan gaskiyar da godiya ga iyaye, malaman da suka hadu a kan hanyar rayuwa - taimakawa wajen fita daga matsayin rashin gaskiya.
- G.D. Roberts wani marubuci ne na Australia wanda, a littafinsa The Shadow of the Mountain, ya nuna yadda za a iya samu, a wani lokaci sai ya durƙusa kansa kuma gwiwoyi abu ne mai kyau game da girman kai.
Menene banza a Orthodoxy?
Me ya sa banzaci zunubi ne a al'adar Orthodox? A cikin shahararren fim din "Mai Shaidan", jarumin Al Pacino ya furta kalmomin da ya yarda cewa ƙarya shine ɗaya daga zunuban da yake auna, Iblis. Mutumin mai girman kai yana da kariya daga gwaji na duhu. Mai Tsarki Uba ne game da banza.
- Tunan tunani ba daga Iblis ba ne, amma ba daga Allah ba.
- Ana nuna girman kai cikin fushi a kusa da su, cewa suna rayuwa ne marasa adalci, maimakon kasancewa da tausayi tare da jinƙai da neman Allah ya jagoranci mutumin da ya bi tafarki madaidaici.
- Wanda ya aikata kuma ya faɗi wani abu don kare mutuncin duniya shine banza (Saint Basil mai girma).
- Ruhun banza shine rami ba tare da ruwa (St. Evagrius) ba.
- Ba'a kamar iska mai tasowa - yana kwantar da duk kyawawan kayan aikin kirki (St. John Chrysostom).
Yadda za a rinjayi girman kai - Orthodoxy
Abin ban tsoro shine zunubi da ke cinye ayyukan mutum . Firistocin Orthodox suna kula da tsarki da tunani da ayyukan yau da kullum - wannan babbar ƙoƙari ne ga hanyar Allah. Gwagwarmaya da girman kai da girman kai sun hada da:
- tawali'u;
- tufafi;
- ayyuka tare da ƙauna da girmamawa ga komai;
- ayyukan kirki, don kada wani daga cikin mutanen da ke kewaye da shi ya san;
- adu'a don taimako wajen kawar da gwaji;
- furta gaban firist.