Wajibi ne don tsarawa
Ya kamata a fahimci cewa dole ne a cika wasu bukatu don haɗuwa . Ba shi yiwuwa ba tare da kwai da jini ba, don haka bazai yiwu a yi ciki ba tare da wani namiji ba (sai dai ga shari'ar cutar kwari). Saboda haka amsar wannan tambayar, ko zai yiwu a yi ciki daga al'amuranka, zai zama mummunar.
Dole ne a fahimci cewa don fahimtar sperm dole ne a kasance a cikin farji, kuma duka abokan tarayya dole ne su kasance balagar jima'i. Wannan shine, alal misali, yarinya game da iyawar daukar ciki za ta ce kasancewar juyayi. Amma har ma da wannan, haɗuwa ba zai yiwu a kowace rana ba, saboda wannan akwai kwanakin sha'ani (jima'i) , yayin da a cikin wasu asalin rayuwa yana da wuyar gaske.
A wace lokuta ne daga taba al'aura zaka iya samun ciki?
Wasu matasan suna shirye su damu da kowane lokaci, yayin da wasu ba su ɗauki muhimman abubuwa masu muhimmanci. Saboda haka, ya kamata a mayar da hankali ga gaskiyar cewa wasu lokuta amsar wannan tambayar, ko zai yiwu a yi ciki a lokacin al'aura, zai iya zama tabbatacce. Yi la'akari da waɗannan lokuta:
- yarinyar ta kama kanta tare da yatsunsu, wanda akwai ragowar maniyyi;
- namiji yana karfafa motsi na jima'i na abokin tarayya, yayin da ya keyi a hannunsa;
- an sanya caresses tare da taimakon wani abu wanda yaduwar kwayar halitta take.
Ya kamata 'yan mata ba su jin kunyar su tambayi iyayensu tambayoyin da suke da muhimmanci, wanda zai iya yin amfani da shi, ta yadda za a iya nuna muhimmancin sha'awa. Bayan haka, ilimin jima'i yana da mahimmanci, a matsayin ci gaban jiki ko na ilimi.