Halin hali

Ba wani asiri ne ga kowa ba cewa cikin cikin ciki na mutum shine wani abu mai ban mamaki da ke canje-canje cikin rayuwar. Wani lokaci zai iya sa mu bambanta fiye da mun kasance minti daya da suka gabata. Kuma ba shakka, abin da ke cikin mu yana nunawa cikin halinmu. Musamman ma, ya shafi hali. Kowane abu da muke fuskanta zai shafi halin mu na mutum. Kuma ba daidai ba ne ka yi watsi da yanayin da halayen halayyar hali. Akalla domin fahimtar yadda kuma inda muka sami wadannan ko wasu halaye na mutum daga gare mu.

Haɓakawa da kuma samuwar hali

Abubuwan da za a iya da'awar suna da alaƙa da hali. Wannan wani nau'i ne na ainihi, wanda ya ba da dama wata hanya ta amsa tambayoyi daban-daban na rayuwa. Matsalar halin kirkirar da aka gano ta kimiyya ta tsawon shekaru da yawa. An yi imani da cewa wannan jigon ka'idar mutum na farko ne Julius Bansen ya gano, wanda ya kalli dabi'a a matsayin salo na wasu halaye. Bayansa, masu ilimin psychologists tare da sunayen duniya (Freud, Jung, Adler) sunyi la'akari da kasancewar halin mutum a matsayin tsari wanda bai wuce sani ba kuma ya haifar da jima'i ko wasu dalilai. Har ila yau, a yau, tambayar da wane nau'in ya tsara, magungunan magungunan magunguna ne. Abinda ke kusa da su shine muhimmancin halin mutum.

Abubuwan da ke haifar da halayyar hali

Hanya da canjin hali shine tsarin da ya dauki babban bangare na rayuwa. Samun dabi'un hali masu kyau wanda kwayoyin halitta ke haifar da su ta hanyar iyayensu, mutum a kowace shekara, kamar albasa yana farawa tare da nau'i-nau'i na halaye da halayen da suka samo asali a ƙarƙashin rinjayar yanayin zamantakewa wanda yake girma da kuma tasowa. Wannan shine dalilin da ya sa hanyoyi na halayyar kirkirar na da amfani na musamman ga masu ilimin psychologists. Kuma, duk da gaskiyar cewa wannan tsari yana da hali ɗaya, ba a taɓa soke manufofin al'ada ba. Kuma matakan farko na halin kirki sune kamar haka:

1. Kwanakin shekaru wanda tasiri akan hali na gaba wanda mutum ya fara kira shi yana da wuyar gaske. A wasu masanan kimiyya wannan tsari an kwatanta kusan daga haihuwa, a wasu - mai yiwuwa daga shekaru biyu. A kowane hali, yana da daraja tunawa cewa tsawon lokaci daga shekaru biyu zuwa goma shine lokacin da yaron ya karɓa na musamman ga abin da aka gaya masa da kuma yadda manya yake aiki tare da shi. Har ila yau, kar ka manta game da tsarin ilimin lissafi wanda ya ba da ambato akan halin da ke gaba. Wannan ya hada da yanayin.
2. Abu na gaba da ke rinjayar samuwar halin yanzu a shekarun makaranta shine, hakika, mataki na yayinda yaron ya shiga cikin ƙungiyoyi da wasanni. Ƙarin sanin irin wannan hulɗar yana da ɗa, mafi kyau zai bunkasa irin waɗannan dabi'u kamar haɗin kai, daidaito, amincewar kai, da dai sauransu. Amma yana da daraja tunawa da cewa wasu aikace-aikacen hadin gwiwar na iya ƙetare halayen wasu dabi'u.
3. A lokacin makaranta, kimanin shekaru 7 zuwa 15, an sanya wani tunanin motsin zuciyar mutum. Ci gaba da wasu dabi'u ya dogara ne da girman kai na matasa, halin da malaman makaranta da abokan adawa ke fuskanta, da kuma tasirin kafofin watsa labarai (Intanet, talabijin, da dai sauransu). Kusa da shekaru 15 zuwa 17 an riga mutum yana da wasu halayen halayen ciki wanda zai kasance ba canzawa a rayuwarsa. Daidaita su zasu sami damar kawai mutumin da kansa zai haifar da cigaban cigaba da aiki a kan kansu. Bugu da ƙari, duka biyu a bangaren kirki (aiki, ilimi), kuma a cikin mummunan (shan taba, shan barasa).
4. Yayin shekaru 25-30, halayyar mutum ya ƙunshi haɗuwa daga "yara" (maximalism, capriciousness, da dai sauransu) da kuma fitowa daga hanyar sadarwa mai mahimmanci (alhakin ayyukan mutum, hankali, da dai sauransu).
5. Bayan shekaru 30 na halin hali, a matsayin mulki, ba a sake faruwa ba. Dalili na iya kasancewa rashin lafiya ko tunani. Bayan shekaru 50, mutane, a matsayin mai mulkin, sun riga sun rabu da wasu nau'ikan kwarewa da mafarkai kuma sun fara rayuwa bisa ka'idar "a nan da yanzu." Mutumin da ya tsufa ya zama, yawancin lokacin da tunaninsa ya fara zama. Musamman shi ne halayyar da farko da tsufa.

Saboda haka, a farkon rayuwa, tushen shine tasiri na iyali da kuma zamantakewar zamantakewa akan halin halayyar mutum. Amma tsofaffi mutum ya zama, yawancin gaba ya dogara da yin aiki a kanka da kuma cikin cikin ciki.