Masanan ilimin kimiyyar sun ce gestures na iya fadin karin motsin zuciyar mutum fiye da kalmominsa, saboda yawancin lokuta muke yin ƙungiyoyi na jiki ba tare da sananne ba, a kan na'ura, aikawa ga abubuwan da ke ciki, kuma ba zamu iya sarrafa su ba. Saboda haka yana da amfani a san abin da ake nufi da motsa jiki, alal misali, hannayensu, don fahimtar yadda abokinka ya kasance mai gaskiya, budewa, kwantar da hankula ko jin dadi, da dai sauransu.
Mene ne aikin hannu da dabino yake nufi?
Hannun mutum suna kusan kullum. Kuma suna kulawa da su sosai a yanayin sadarwa. Idan abokan hamayyarka sun shafe shi da karfi, to, hannayensa da hannayensa bazai yiwu ba su hutawa, mafi mahimmanci, zai juya wani abu a hannuwansa, yin kullun wani abu, abubuwa masu kisa, tufafinsa, gashi, da dai sauransu. Yana da mahimmanci a san abin da gestures aka yi magana game da, domin ya fassara fassarar mutumin da yake magana, ya ba da hankali ga kalmomin kawai.
Halin farko wanda zai iya faɗi abubuwa da yawa game da mutum shi ne musafiha mai gaisuwa. Idan mutumin kirki ne, zai shimfiɗa hannunsa farko, juya shi tare da hannunsa. Ana son nuna girmamawa da mahimmanci, mutane sukan shimfiɗa hannunsu, suna fuskantar ƙasa tare da haƙarƙari. Mai yalwaci, mai rikici ba tare da rikici ba, mai mahimmanci, zai ba ka hannu, ya juya baya. A cikin rashin tsaro, mutum mara karfi, hannun zai kasance mai rauni kuma madaidaici, kuma musafiha mai rauni.
Wasu hannayen hannu da ma'anar su:
- mutane sukan yada hannunsu a tarnaƙi kuma suna nuna hannayen su - yana da gaskiya kuma yana budewa zuwa sadarwa;
- ƙetare makamai da dabino, a akasin haka, yi magana akan faɗakarwa kuma ba shiri don tuntuɓar;
- dabino sunyi juna akan juna suna magana game da kwarewar kwarewa na abokin gaba;
- hannaye a cikin aljihu, musamman ma idan mutum yana zaune a lokaci guda - alamar tashin hankali da rashin tausayi;
- hannayen suna motsi, mutum yana ci gaba da gashin kansa, yana taba fuskarsa, da dai sauransu. Yana ƙoƙarin karya;
- Mutumin yana rufe bakinsa da hannunsa - bai yarda da ku ba, amma baiyi kuskure ba;
- madaidaiciya, ɗakunan dabino ga juna - alamar mahimmanci kuma mai tsayuwa cikin sadarwar mutum;
- dabino suna kwance a gefen teburin - abokin adawar yana neman samun taimako daga gare ku;
- hamsin hantsi - wanda ba ya son rikici , yana shirye don kowane sulhu a cikin sadarwa;
- Ɗaya hannu yana riƙe da wuyan hannu - mutumin bai tabbatar da ayyukansa da kalmominsa ba, amma yayi ƙoƙarin cire kansa tare.
Abubuwan da aka fi sani da yatsunsu da ma'anar su
Akwai abubuwan da ake kira gestures na duniya, waɗanda mutane daga ko'ina cikin duniya suke fahimta sosai. Kuma sau da yawa suna amfani da su don cin nasara akan bargaren harshe. Duk da haka, duk da haka, dole ne a yi amfani da hankali tare da yatsunsu, sababbin kasashen Turai, alal misali, a musulmi da wasu ƙasashe. Bayan haka, a nan za a iya bi da su azaman ƙyama.
Saboda haka duk alamar "OK" - ƙwallon yatsa da yatsa - yawanci shine nuna yarda. Amma a Brazil da ƙasashen Larabawa, yana nufin alamar zumunci da kuma mummunan aiki. A Japan, wannan karfin ya kamata a fahimta a matsayin tambaya "Yaya yake?".
Ma'anar wasu gestures tare da yatsunsu:
- kulle a cikin yatsun "ƙulle" - maɓallin rikicewar rikicewa tare da kalmominka, koda kuwa mutumin yayin yin murmushi, tabbata cewa zai ki amincewa da shawararka;
- yatsunsu sun shiga cikin ƙuƙwalwar hannu - alamar da ake hana zalunci, mai yiwuwa abokin gaba zai iya fashewa kowane minti daya;
- Ƙungiyar haɗin gwiwa na yatsunsu suna yin hutun - alamar amincewa ga mai magana a cikin kai, yana jin daɗin kwarewa, kalmominka kuma suna nisantar da murmushi.